Is my mother wrong or am I wrong about this?

Thats not right, if your mom wants to prevent you from doing what you want so you will do what she wants and do what shes suppost to do, you shouldnt agree with her if shes goig to get and "education" and make you do her work what is she learing? You mise well be going to college if shes making you do her work. Are you going to get her ahead and leave yourself behind? No, its not alright what shes doing. Tell her your goi to do what is best for you so you dont regret it in the future. :)